Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Dress For Less

Budgeting for your family’s clothing needs can be a challenge, especially during times of economic uncertainty. Although most families can scale back on their clothing purchases, some needs must still be met. Learn or sharpen the following skills to clothe your growing family.
1. Learn to sew and mend. Almost lost arts, these skills are necessary to make good use of existing clothing and fabrics. Although it may not always be cost-effective to sew your own clothes, you can save money by doing your own alterations and repairs. By learning how to sew, you can also custom-make items for family members with special needs, hard-to-find sizes, or distinctive tastes.
{I used to be afraid of sewing. I knew the basics, but that's it. When I decided to sew my own apron (I saved about $40) I was surprised that I actually enjoyed it. It opened a new world to me that I could make almost anything!}

2. Swap. Invite other families with children of similar ages to swap clothing with you. Each family contributes good, usable clothing, and the families “swap shop” at a central meeting place. Any remaining items can be donated to Deseret Industries or another charity.

3. Put the word out. Let friends and other family members know you’d love to receive any clothing they may have outgrown or don’t use. Even if you can’t use a particular item, accept it graciously and donate it to a thrift store.
{Lucky me, I'm the youngest of 7 kids, so I get LOTS of hand-me-downs from my neices and nephews. I can't even fathom how much money it has saved me!}

4. Sell used clothing. If you do not trade or have opportunities to share clothing, consignment shops and garage sales are good ways to sell used clothing. Earnings can then be used to replenish other clothing needs.

5. Be thrifty. Shop your local thrift stores and garage sales. Sometimes you can find new clothes with the tags still attached. Ask if the store offers dollar days or other incentives. And don’t be afraid to bargain at yard sales.
{Baby clothes are usually very gently used}

6. Cyber-shop. You can find good prices on clothing and accessories at many Internet sites. Before you log on, though, have a specific plan and budget for what you need to purchase.

7. Shop outlet malls and discount stores. Be price savvy, since not all of these stores will have bargains. But some do, and I especially like to shop end-of-season clearance sales for next year’s clothing needs. For growing children, buy one or more sizes up. You can justify storing well-made outfits for a year if they’re half price or less.

8. Get on mailing lists. Many of your favorite stores are happy to send you information and coupons for upcoming sales. Shop judiciously and remember that nothing is a bargain if you don’t have the money or if you don’t need it or can’t use it. Save for your clothing purchases and search for the best deals on items you truly need.

Jane McBride Choate, “Dress for Less,” Ensign, Apr 2010, 68

Monday, March 29, 2010

FHE ~ Government

Opening Song: "Keep the Commandments" Children's Songbook, p. 95

Scripture: Alma 46:36

Lesson/Activity:

Participating in our government and helping good people be leaders. Doctrine and Covenants 134 teaches that we should seek for and uphold national leaders who "administer the law in equity and justice" (verse 3). What other qualities should we look for when choosing leaders? In August 1835, a general assembly of the Church at Kirtland, Ohio, unanimously approved a declaration of beliefs about government. This declaration is recorded in D&C 134.

"As Church members, we live under the banner of many different flags. How important it is that we understand our place and our position in the lands in which we live! We should be familiar with the history, heritage, and laws of the lands that govern us. In those countries that allow us the right to participate in the affairs of government, we should use our free agency and be actively engaged in supporting and defending the principles of truth, right, and freedom" (in Conference Report, Oct. 1987, 87; or Ensign, Nov. 1987, 72).


Treat: Domino Cookies

1 pkg. (16.5 oz.) Refrigerated Sugar Cookie Bar Dough
1/4 cup all-purpose flour, divided
1/3 cup Semi-Sweet Chocolate Morsels
PREHEAT oven to 325° F.

CUT dough in half lengthwise; refrigerate one half. Sprinkle about 1 tablespoon flour onto work surface. Sprinkle additional flour over remaining dough half. Roll out dough to 1/4-inch thickness to form a 8 1/2 x 6-inch rectangle. Cut into 12 equal-size rectangles. Place 2 inches apart on ungreased baking sheet. Score each rectangle across middle with a knife. Gently press morsels, point side down, into dough to form domino numbers. Repeat with remaining dough.

BAKE for 10 to 13 minutes or until edges are golden brown. Cool on baking sheets for 2 minutes; remove to wire racks to cool completely.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Things To Remember

I read this on this website, but it originally comes from the book, "The Busy Mom's Guide to a Happy, Organized Home" by Kathy Peel. I just loved each one of these and I know we should be implementing them in our home lives:

The Most Important Things to Remember

1. People are more important than things.

2. There are no standards but your own. Every family has to decide how clean is clean enough.

3. The more you accumulate, the more you have to clean and maintain -and the more time it takes to do it.

4. When your kids grow up and leave home, they won’t remember if the towels were folded in perfect 16-inch squares in the linen closet; they will remember if your home was a good place to be and if Mom was a fun person.

5. If you have a choice between taking a family vacation or buying new furniture, go for the vacation. The furniture will end up in a garage sale one day; the memories of the trip will last forever.

6. Everyone who lives under the roof of a home should contribute to its upkeep.

7. If a teenager is an expert at text messaging, he can become an expert at using the washing machine. A man who can program a PDA to remind him of his tee time can program a PDA to remind him to pick up the dry cleaning.

8. Mess causes stress. Getting your home in order will help you get your life in order.

9. There’s no such thing as perfection. Giving up trying to make your home perfect is the first step toward making it a good place to be.

10. The choices you make about your home involve a lot more than wall color and window treatments. Home is where human beings develop. It’s a place to restore souls, find shelter from outside pressures, grow support for talents, and receive inspiration, comfort, and aid.

Thursday, March 25, 2010

I Just Love a Good Quote!

{this quote was directed toward fathers, but I think it could be toward mothers too}

"Fathers, if you wish your children to be taught in the principles of the gospel, if you wish them to love the truth and understand it, if you wish them to be obedient to and united with you, love them! And prove to them that you do love them, by your every word or act to them. For your own sake, for the love that should exist between you and your [children]--however wayward they might be, . . . when you speak or talk to them, do it not in anger; do it not harshly, in a condemning spirit. Speak to them kindly: get down and weep with them if necessary, and get them to shed tears with you if possible. soften their hearts; get them to feel enderly towards you. Use no lash and no violence, but . . . approach them with reason, with persuasion and love unfeigned."
~ President Joseph F. Smith

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Cream Cheese Brownies

These are the yummiest, gooeyest brownies ever. And here is how to make them.

In a sauce pan, melt together:
2/3 cup shortening
5 T. cocoa

Then add:
2 cups sugar
1/2 cup milk

Mix and bring to a boil. Remove from heat, and add - (use whisk)
1 cup flour
1/2 t. baking powder
1 t. salt

Mix and add-
4 beaten eggs
1 t. vanilla

Stir until blended. Pour in a 9 x 13" pan.
The cream cheese filing is a basic filling that I put in almost everything :) {I think cream cheese should be a food group.}
8 oz. cream cheese (softened)
1/2 cup sugar
1 egg
Beat well together, then drop spoonfuls onto brownie batter.

Next, marble with knife.


Bake at 350 for 30 minutes.


ENJOY!!

Friday, March 19, 2010

Date Idea #3

Have you got plans tonight? NO?? Better get on that. Call up your sweetie, and ask them out on an official date.


Tonight, we're going to dinner and a movie. Sounds routine right? Try going to something you normally wouldn't go see, you might be surprised! Sure, it could be for the bad, but it could be for the good too, right? Have fun!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Craft Star

Making this craft star is super easy! Just buy any star, big or small - you can get them at Tai Pan, Roberts, etc. - then buy coordinating scrapbook paper. I made this one for my daughters bedroom, which is pink and white. To make the paper the right size for each point, I just layed it over the point, traced it with a pencil, and cut it out. Once you have them all cut out, fold them in the middle length-wise so it fits perfectly on each point. I just used a glue-stick and stuck it right on the star. You could use mod-podge underneath too. Then I took some brown ink, and just distressed the sides. Use mod-podge over the top to seal it, and there you go! Let me know if you have any questions about it.

Monday, March 15, 2010

FHE ~ Journals

Opening Song: “The Golden Plates,” Children’s Songbook #86

Scripture: 3 Nephi 23: 6-13; Jesus saw and added to the records of the Nephites.


Lesson/Activity:

Relate an experience from your journal or invite a family member who keeps a journal to share an experience from their journal.

Help each family member obtain or make a journal. This may be a special purchased journal, a three-ring binder with paper, or a spiral notebook. Journals may be personalized by decorating the cover of putting photographs in them. Let each family member personalize his journal in his own way.

Closing Song: “Family History” Children’s Songbook


Treat: Checkerboard Cookies
1 pkg. (16 oz.) Refrigerated Mini-Brownie Bites bar dough
1 pkg. (16 oz.) Refrigerated Chocolate Chip Cookie bar dough
PREHEAT oven to 325° F. Grease 13 x 9-inch baking pan or dish.FLIP each bar over on cutting board. Cut each into 12 pieces. Place pieces alternately 1/2-inch apart, in prepared pan to make checkerboard design. BAKE for 25 to 27 minutes or until wooden pick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool completely in pan on wire rack. Cut into bars.

Monday, March 8, 2010

FHE ~ Be A Missionary

Opening Song: “I Want To Be A Missionary Now”

Scripture: Romans 1:16 “For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to everyone that believeth.”

Lesson/Activity:

Materials Needed- Treats for your family
Begin the lesson by taking a treat for yourself. Eat it and describe how good it tastes. Ask someone to describe how good it tastes. (They won’t know.) Ask why that person doesn’t know. (They have not tasted it.)
Explain that the gospel is like this treat. Others can see that you have it, but not until you offer to share it they cannot enjoy it themselves. Discuss the importance of sharing the gospel with everyone. Share the treat with the entire group.

Memorize an article of faith together as a family.

(Families with no children in the home) Invite a less-active or non-member neighbor to your home for Family Home Evening or just to get to know them better.

Closing Song: “Called To Serve”


Treat: No-Bake Peanut Butter Squares

½ cup (1 stick) butter or margarine
2 cups powdered sugar
1 ½ cups Graham Cracker Crumbs
1 cup Peanut Butter
1 ½ pkg. (12 squares) semi-sweet baking chocolate
Line 13.9” baking pan with foil, with ends of foil extending over sides of pan. Set aside. Melt butter in large microwavable bowl oh HIGH 45 sec. until melted. Add sugar, graham cracker crumbs and peanut butter; mix well. Spread into pan. Microwave chocolate in microwaveable bowl on HIGH 1 ½ to 2 min. or until melted, stirring after each min. Coo slightly; pour over peanut butter mixture. Cool. Cut partially through dessert to mark 48 squares. Refrigerate 1 hour or until set.

Friday, March 5, 2010

One Parent~One Child

Do you want to strengthen your relationship with your child? If your answer is no - you should not be a parent :)

I have a strong testimony on one-on-one time with your child. How much one-on-one time is your child getting with you and with your spouse? Even if you only have one child, your day may sound something like this:

"Time to get out of bed!" (or in my case, "Go back to bed, please!")
"Finish your breakfast!"
"Where are your shoes? We are going to be late!"
"How was your day?"
"Quit fighting with your brother/sister!"
"Finish your homework!"
"Finish your vegetables!"
"Brush your teeth!"
"Go to sleep!!"

There is nothing wrong with giving your children direction throughout the day, although it could sound a little more pleasant than that! But more often, much needed one-on-one time gets put on the back burner.

Find a way that works for your family. My husband and I go on a date every other weekend. On the "off" weeks, we split up and take our kids on a one-on-one date. He'll take our oldest son, and I'll take our daughter. The next "off" week, he'll take our daughter, and I'll take our oldest son. What happens to our baby you may ask? He always tags along with me. However, when he is old enough to appreciate the one-on-one dates, I'm sure my husband and I will come up with another solution.

The important thing is one parent ~ one child. Make the date about them. You don't have to spend any money either. Be creative. One time, when we were low on funds for the week, I told my daughter to go put on her prettiest shoes. I did the same and we met in the kitchen for a special treat. She LOVED it! My daughter loves shoes, and she loves treats, so I made the date about her.

I encourage you to find a way that works for you family to spend one-on-one time with your child. If you don't already, I think you will be pleasantly surprised at how it affects your relationship!

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

March Visiting Teaching Message

Here is the March visiting teaching message. You should be able to click on the picture and print out a few copies to take to your sisters. Happy visiting teaching :)



Monday, March 1, 2010

FHE ~ The Preisthood

Opening Song: “The Priesthood is Restored,” Children’s Songbook #89

Scripture: Abraham 1:18


Lesson/Activity:
Read and discuss Abraham 1:1-19 with your family; or if your children are young, tell the story in your own word. Then, share the following:

Our Family is Blessed by the Priesthood

Explain to your family that this priesthood or power of God that Abraham was given is the same priesthood that the fathers or sons in your family have. One of the reasons the Lord has given men the priesthood is so that they can bless their families. Every member of your family who is a member of the Church has had some blessings from the priesthood.
Let each person tell about a blessing he has received through the power of the priesthood. For example:
1. Talk about the blessings the children received as babies. Tell about the event, who attended the meeting, who assisted the father or gave the blessing, how the name was chosen, etc. Any details you can remember will be fascinating to the child about whom you are talking as well as to other family members. Be sure to include an expression of how you felt on these occasions.
2. A family member who has been baptized and confirmed could tell about that experience and how he felt.
3. A family member could tell about receiving an anointing and blessing when s/he was ill.
4. Someone in your family could share his feelings about receiving a father’s blessing.
5. share your feelings about going to the temple to be sealed if you have had a temple marriage.

Treat: Make and eat the favorite treat of the priesthood holder in your home.